Thursday, May 29, 2014

Count Your Blessings

My first meeting with my health coach was an enlightening and fun experience.  At the end of our session she hands me a journal.  She looks me in the eyes and says, "Every night I want you to write 3 blessings or list 3 things that make you smile."  This was the easiest assignment ever, right?  Well the first week, I did really well.  I had some many things to list, picking 3 was a challenge.  However as the days got busier and longer, taking the time to capture these things became less of a priority.

When I thought about what to share on this special day, I figured I'd count my blessings and name a few because again there are too many to name.

Blessing #1 - Today is my birthday!!!  On this special day not only do I become a more seasoned 30-something year old, it also marks the 21st year that I have been cured from Hodgkin's Disease.  Blessing #1 focuses on just being alive.  There's nothing more exciting than that.

Blessing #2 - My husband, Corey is my second blessing.  When I prayed for this man, I had no idea that God would deliver someone that would fit all the characteristics of the type of man I desired.  He's a loving, supportive, intelligent, selfless, thoughtful, Godly man.  We never thought that shortly over a year after taking our vows that our vows would be tested.  In sickness and in health, for better or for worst...  We've experienced almost all of those and it only makes our relationship stronger.  I wouldn't want to do it with anyone else.  He's the bomb dot com!

Blessing #3 - Team Tough Cookie is my third blessing.  When I started this journey, I had no idea how much support I would have.  I knew that I was loved.  I had no idea how much I was loved.  I know we are in the early stages of this fight.  However, I've received so many beautiful cards, well wishes, and selfless acts of love that I couldn't possibly imagine.  For that I am truly blessed.  I have not had to worry about anything.  Thanks to all of you who have done anything to make my journey a pleasant one.

I know I'm only supposed to list 3 blessings.  However, I want to share an experience that makes today an  important day.  A few days after my first treatment, I was suffering from really bad indigestion, which is a side effect of the chemo.  I called my nurse to find out what I could do to treat it.  During our conversation, she says playfully, "Let me see, well you had your treatment last Thursday and let me check the calendar.  You should lose your hair by May 29th."  I said with a bit of disappointment in my voice, "Oh, that's my birthday."  She tried her best to cheer me up by saying she was looking at the wrong calendar.  I thought nothing could change the way I felt or cheer me up.  After hanging up, I cried.

My honey was there to remind me that my journey will be different and that I serve a God that can do anything but fail.  As he ministered to that broken place, I remembered one of my hubby's favorite scriptures, "For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)  I knew she meant well.  But, I also know the God we serve will give us the desires of our heart.  So, I took my hubby's advice and took my petition to the Lord in prayer.

So, my fourth blessing is...

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Proverbs 30:31)

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7 comments:

Unknown said...

I love you Markell.. Of you've done nothing else your spirit and faith in God has blessed my soul. Happy birthday my tough cookie

Unknown said...

Yes Mark you are loved! Loved by hundreds of people, and most importantly you are loved spiritually by the Almighty God!! It is not only a pleasure to know and be around you, it is an HONOR! You are selfless in everything you do and that's why God has blessed and highly favored you on this journey. Happy Birthday Mark!!!! Luv, Kisses, and Hugs!! #TEAMTOUGHCOOKIE

A Tough Cookie Chronicles said...

Love you Tasha and Shelby!!! Thanks for showing the love!!!!

Unknown said...

Markell, you are in inspiration to so many people including myself! Thank you for sharing your journey with us all! "Life is tough at times, but all we have to do is prove that we are tougher than it!" Happy Birthday Diva!!

Unknown said...

Hi Markell, my name is Robbie....your husband Corey (& Ricky) & I were classmates at Hastings. I love your blog & want you to know that im praying for you. My mother lost her battle to cancer (multiple myeloma) about 5 years ago. I wish I would've thought to create a blog to release & express mine & my moms thoughts! I can see that you're a beautiful person inside & out & you will be abundantly blessed!! Continue to trust in the Lord with all your heart & lean not on your own understanding! You inspire me & for that I THANK YOU!! Happy Belated Birthday! You & your family are in my prayers!

A Tough Cookie Chronicles said...

Thank you Robbie! My uncle passed from Multiple Myeloma many years ago. It's never too late to start your blog. I say go for it. A lot of people struggle with losing loved ones. Your story could be the inspiration they need. It is so nice to meet you via the blog, and I hope to meet you in person some day soon!

Sophie said...

I'm always a day late and a dollar short. Happy Belated Birthday!!!!!
Friend I love you and continue to stay positive. #teamtoughcookie

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